The Path to Peace: Embracing Constructive Criticism

In our journey as human beings, we often fall into the trap of judging others based on our own perspectives. We assume that everyone should respond in the same way, regardless of age or circumstances. This mindset leads to unrealistic expectations, fostering unnecessary criticism, and forgetting that humans are emotional creatures, influenced by prejudice, pride, and vanity.

There is a poignant story of Thomas Chatterton, an English poet who tragically took his own life due to harsh criticism. As a peace builder and advocate, I have come to understand that promoting peace does not require unnecessary criticism. Such criticism fails to bring about lasting change and often leads to resentment, as it puts people on the defensive, making them feel the need to justify themselves.

I wholeheartedly agree with the adage, “Don’t complain about the dirt on your neighbor’s roof when your own doorstep is unclean.” Similar wisdom can be found in the teachings of Jesus Christ, reminding us not to focus on the speck in our brother’s eye while ignoring the log in our own. It is crucial to take a moment for self-examination before offering any form of criticism, as it is possible that the person being criticized may be in the right. Exercising wisdom is essential.

Furthermore, it is important to remember that people often behave as we would in similar circumstances. Empathy and understanding are key in such situations.

It is worth noting that everyone will experience criticism at some point in their lives, regardless of how uncomfortable or awkward it may be. However, when given and received correctly, constructive criticism can be a valuable gift. Recognizing our imperfections, it helps us fill in knowledge gaps, develop our expertise, and improve ourselves. Constructive criticism, devoid of malice, can build trust, harmony, and lasting peace.

One must also recognize the ways in which they can benefit from criticism and leverage it to become stronger and more capable. Embracing constructive criticism allows us to grow personally and professionally.

On the other hand, the habit of fault-finding and reprimanding hampers lasting peace and development. Even the vastness of God Himself does not propose to judge humanity until the end of days. Why, then, should we?

MPUUGA PATRICK